tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5202630.post686636737987503978..comments2023-06-23T16:13:12.577+03:00Comments on Neeka's Backlog: Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5202630.post-49044797440515270222010-03-31T21:10:24.869+04:002010-03-31T21:10:24.869+04:00Yes, you're shielding each other, and that is ...Yes, you're shielding each other, and that is just what parents and children do. It's very natural, very normal, nothing to hate yourself about.Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09543875018604881180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5202630.post-251477097658084032010-03-31T08:13:30.298+04:002010-03-31T08:13:30.298+04:00I don't think you're using her as a shield...I don't think you're using her as a shield--you're being a mom, and that takes a lot of physical and psychic energy. And you are protecting her from things that she can't handle, and in that way maybe protecting yourself. <br /><br />Having lived in that neighborhood, too, I just feel sick about this whole thing. And I had a premonition something was due to happen, which makes me feel worse.<br /><br />Hope you can get away for a while. It's not a solution, but one needs to regroup. And the backlash is going to be ugly.Julianoreply@blogger.com